6 Feb But when it came time to turn your fantasies into reality, CUCK, you laid out the rules for what sounds like a fairly standard open-not-poly relationship: she could fuck other people and so could you. Once again, I'm confused: the cuckold in a “ cuckolding thing” typically doesn't get to fuck around. He gets. 26 Jan Hopefully by opening this dialogue, some of his followers might feel less shame and concern about their fantasies. According to Ley, forthcoming research by study co-author Justin Lehmiller shows as many as 58 percent of males “endorse a fantasy of watching their female partner with other men.” Based. So, your first step after saying the opening line is to causally take your phone out, while still being interested and listening to what she has to say. Before the approach, open to your contacts and click add new, that way, you already have it open and ready for her when you pop the “So could I get your number?” question .